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lalala.. today studied stats instead of FOM.. getting tired of FOM le.. haha.. sian ma.. then played and played and played.. wth issit with me man.. still wanna play... sian... I AM SERIOUSLY SLACKING... NEED SOME SORT OF MOTIVATION! haha.. if got any words of encouragement would be good sia.. haiz..

hmm.. bo liao i go find wads the difference between jealousy and envy..

Jealousy

Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat.

The word "jealousy" is frequently used to describe what is more properly envy,fixation on what someone else has.

Envy

Envy is an emotion that "occurs when a person lacks another’s superior quality, achievement, or possession and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it."

Envy can be a neutral emotion, e.g. "I envied my fiancee's laptop, and saved to get one of my own."

It can also be a sense of low self-esteem that results from an upward social comparison threatening a person's self image: another person has something that the envier considers to be important to have. If the other person is perceived to be similar to the envier, the aroused envy will be particularly intense, because it signals to the envier that it just as well could have been him or her who had the desired object.

Although envy is generally seen as something negative, Russell (1930, p. 82) referred to envy as “one of the most universal and deep-seated of human passions” and the tendency to feel envy seems to be present in all cultures.

well.. thats taken from Wiki la.. i not a prof in all that.. but it seems that envy is healthy in some cases la.. lol..

heard from my father's friend that its good to feel competitive, but once that turns into jealousy, it gets ugly.. some truth in that..

hmm.. hope you had a nice day today.. ^^